
Above and to the left is the main culprit, Our Mutual Friend. In order to keep pace so that I might post the last of five weekly posts on Dickens's birthday, February 7, I must read 200 pages per week. That's not a hardship as the book is delightful, but it is just enough to keep me from finishing anything else on the longer side. For that reason, I found I had abandoned Geert Mak's travelogue/history of post-war Europe In Europe, despite finding it fascinating and beautifully written in favor of...

Friends also gave me a belated birthday present last night in the form of Nigel Slater's The Kitchen Diaries, with their notes scrawled next to certain recipes, e.g., this is really good! The many recipes are in the form of a food "diary," in that they are organized by time of year. The recipes look, for the most part, fairly simple and the photographs enticing. I can't wait to try one.



They daily suffer snub, avoidance, patronization, and occasionally outright cruelty...but whatever the source of grievance, the disabled have limited ways of showing it...Quadriplegics cannot stalk offin high (or low) dudgeon, nor can they even use body language. To make matters worse, as the price for normal relations, they must comfort others about their condition. They cannot show fear, sorrow, depression, sexuality, or anger for this disturbs the able-bodied. The unsound of limb are permitted only to laugh.The last of the three books is Matt Ridley's The Rational Optimist, whose purpose seems to be (having not yet read the book) to counter what is seen as a bias intellectualism has toward pessimism. He argues that food, income, and lifespan are increasing while child mortality and violence are decreasing and, as a result, people's lives are more prosperous and, therefore, better. I'm not sure whether I will buy the prosperous = happy implication I'm picking up in my as yet cursory look at this book, but it's the kind of argument that gets my dander up. Ridley is a smart writer so I'm curious to have my own biases put to the test. I think this trio will make for some interesting cross-commentary. I have no doubt that Steven Pinker's latest book could make an interesting fourth, but its focus on violence is a bit more circumscribed than I'm looking for. I'd appreciate any other suggestions you good readers might have for books specifically on happiness, optimism, and sanity that might add something to the discussion.
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The bit about the books about positive-thinking and the excerpt from The Damaged Self reminded me of hearing Siddhartha Mukherjee, author of The Emperor of All Maladies (it's about cancer), at a book festival. Mukherjee is an oncoloist (among other titles and areas of knowledge) and an audience member asked him about the link between patients' attitude and their ability to fight off cancer. Mukherjee politely said (I'm paraphrasing) that he finds the link between attitude and wellness to be kind of bunk. He has seen patients with great attitudes die quickly and patients with terrible attitudes survive their cancer.
Hi Christy - Yes, the part of Barbara Ehrenreich's Bright-Sided I'm reading right now says largely the same as Mukherjee, but is good at describing the evolution of the spurious connection and why it caught on. It also makes the points that such a connection a) implies falsely that patients who don't recover are themselves to blame and that b) it is not the patient who is served by the positive attitude, it is the people who interact with the patient who find it more pleasant and less challenging to be around positive than around negative emotions.
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